How The Intimate Knowing Of Our Identity Helps Us All Heal To Overcome And Conquer What Desires To Conquer Us



It is in us “knowing” each other that is where the prophetic and therefore living and powerful word of God establishes intimacy that is the foundation of a covenant relationship. It is within the hidden parts of our identity where the intents and thoughts of our hearts are concealed until God reveals through our knowing each other intimately without the fear of deceit, manipulation, control, persecution or retaliation. It is how we are empowered to love each other as God loves us with thoughts of peace, love, wisdom, understanding, favor and every blessing of His image and likeness us work in us cultivating us anew to prosper us well, whole and holy. It is where our love is able to cover and protect each other from the harm of each other’s fleshly intent so we can repent without the shame of regret because we are graced to set each other free from the demonic captivity of our unbelief; by seeing the God in our inner me that helps us overcome the enemy of our inner me.

Only God can give us this kind of intimate knowing of each other for His glory. He is the revealer of the intents and thoughts of our hearts where we become known and are not ashamed of the nakedness of our transparency because we are safe in His loving presence that embraces us to receive our weaknesses; and in turn give us the strength of His perfect love that sets us free from the demonic captivity accusing our thoughts, beliefs, perspectives, understandings, word, desire, emotion, feeling and deed.

Often times we hear from the bible of how the husband knew his wife. Some people will limit this to only a physical knowing, but those who know that we worship God in spirit and truth understand this is first purposed to be established as a spiritual knowing that only God can give us access to; because He entrusts and assigns covenant relationship, gracing us with His Holy presence to love authentically and unconditionally where we all are set free from demonic captivity in thought, belief, perspective, understanding, word, desire, emotion, feeling and deed by the healing power of His true love that sets us free to be transparent, vulnerable, genuine, real and authentic in who He has redeemed us to be and become as we overcome and conquer our enemy of our inner me.

Therefore, before we can love each other, we first must allow ourselves to discover how we are known by our Heavenly Father who establishes covenant relationship based on how He has graced us to heal what we try to conceal because we have yet to encounter the faith that heals us well, whole and holy to fulfill the call of our purpose, vision and mission(s). This is the beginning of a beautiful love story where intimacy is established by a prophetic calling from God that is a living and powerful knowing of the intents and thoughts of the heart; which gifts us the grace from His holy and loving presence to heal what we desire to conceal because we have yet to be able to trust anyone who has the perfect love of God to help us heal from the demonic captivity of sin and iniquity that is strengthen in what we try to conceal. We all desire to be known, hoping we will encounter the kind of love that will heal us from what tries to torment us because we desire to encounter someone who God has given the grace of covenant relationship to intimately know us as He has created us without shaming us for what we have yet to become. It is the seed of faith that gets planted in our hearts by His grace that heals us to make us new in Him where we become well in mind, whole in spirit and holy in our soul as we are redeemed by the Holy presence of the Lover of our soul who saves us by grace from the enemy of our inner me.

At New You Wellness Institute we are graced to serve those God has given us an intimate knowing because we have been gifted with His graced love to establish covenant relationship to set people free from their demonic captivity that is hidden until God sends us with the revelation of His Holy Spirit of truth purposed to set us all free in thought, belief, perspective, understanding, word, desire, emotion, feeling and deed. Our Pastoral Counseling team is gifted to help our members, mentees, students and clients become a new creation in Christ where old things associated with their old identity where they experience demonic captivity passes away; where we all are made new in mind, spirit, soul and body that is our new identity in Christ that is our gift of eternal life.

We are not prepared to manage life, love, work and relationships until we encounter an intimate knowing of who we are graced to be, become and therefore overcome. As a Pastoral Counselor and Holistic Life And Relational Wellness Coach I have been graced to work with those God has given me the graced assignment of covenant relationship to heal what they try to conceal but God’s healing presence reveals when it is time for them to heal and be set free from the demonic captivity of their old creation of the carnal mindset that is the fleshly identity where we all have been born into a sinful mind with a heart of iniquity that requires us to heal and transform into the new creation of a new mindset that is the mind of Christ that is our gift of eternal life.

I invite you to consider applying to enroll in our Whole Person Healing And Leadership Development Program if you are ready to go to the next level of your faith so you can be healed in the part of your identity that needs a daily moment by moment revelation of God’s healing power doing a perfect work in you to help make you well, whole and holy; equipping you to manage the complexities that comes with the responsibilities of managing your gift of eternal life where Christ came to give you life more abundantly (John 10:10).



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Healing From The Deceptive Glory Manifesting Within The Information Age

We are constantly feeding the mind at a more rapid rate because of the immediate and overwhelming internet access to information bombarding our thoughts and desires to recruit us to agree, birth and manifest our strongest allegiance to the thoughts of fear that create mental issues being presented to us or the thoughts of faith that is at the beginning of our mental health and whole person healing that makes us well whole and holy being presented to us. Which informational reports are we going to believe? The world of God tells us in Deuteronomy 30:15-20:
See, I have set before you today life and good, death and evil, in that I command you today to love the Lord your God, to walk in His ways, and to keep His commandments, His statutes, and His judgments, that you may live and multiply; and the Lord your God will bless you in the land which you go to possess. But if your heart turns away so that you do not hear, and are drawn away, and worship other gods and serve them, I announce to you today that you shall surely perish; you shall not prolong your days in the land which you cross over the Jordan to go in and possess.  I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live; that you may love the Lord your God, that you may obey His voice, and that you may cling to Him, for He is your life and the length of your days; and that you may dwell in the land which the Lord swore to your fathers, to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, to give them.”
We are in the information age that is the glory age that brings about mental health or mental issues impacting the minds and hearts of people (Proverbs 4:23). As believers in Christ, it is important that we understand the glory of the wisdom of God we say we believe. If we do not go to a higher level of understanding faith in God and a higher level of understanding His glory, we will be left behind being the subservient of worldly tactics, agendas, ideologies and perspectives that have been strategically and systematically orchestrated to stop us from possessing our rightful inheritance as believers in Christ. God established His thoughts and plans for us when He first conceived the idea of us in His higher and heavenly thoughts that is the beginning of our new identity in Christ that is the glory of our whole person; empowering us to have dominion within our whole person and everyday lifestyle (Genesis 1:28) .
If we do not pursue who we are in God with all that we are and with all that we have, we will eventually succumb to a lower state of being. believing and living where we experience the mental issues of a cursed mindset because we never embraced, pursued nor believed the blessing of our Christ centered mindset where mental health and whole person healing to include total life prosperity is made possible. As believers in Christ, we have access to the manifested holy glory of our eternal being in Christ that is the evidence of our new covenant relationship with God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit. Our covenant relationship with the Trinity of God, reveals to us to reveal through us the power and authority of His holiness that is His higher and heavenly eternal being manifesting through us to save us and people from a perishing mindset; where ever issue of life is conceived. cultivated and manifested as people issues, societal issues and therefore the world at large issues .
Therefore, if we really want to change the world like we claim we do, it starts with allowing the word of God to transform our mindset by renewing the Spirit of our mind from the power of sin, presence of sin and penalty of sin. We need to be delivered from the spiritual, emotional, mental and symptomatic issues within self that manifest into our societal issues so we are equipped to overcome, conquer and take back our kingdom of God authority hidden within our blessed identity in Christ who empowers us to boldly proclaim we are Christians who posesss the power of our Heavenly Father to heal find who is lost so we are empowered to heal who is wounded and restore who has been damaged starting with our own person in mind, spirit, soul and body. As we manifest the tangible evidence of our authority, we will become the annointed solution sent by God to resolve the spiritual issues, emotional issues, mental issues of people that have become relational issues, societal issues and the world issues.

God sent His Son to give back the kingdom of God power and authority reserved for those who are in direct covenant agreement with the mindset of God. We have been given the opportunity to be recreated in the image and likeness of His heavenly mindset that is our liberty and freedom to live above the deceit, control and manipulation of the enemy of the inner me and the enemy of peoples inner me. We are hearing an increase of mental health awareness because of the increase of mental health issues stemming from the identity crisis of being separated from the identity of Christ who connects us back to the identity of our Heavenly Father and Creator of our whole person healing to include mental wellness and wholeness. We need to take possession of our gift that is His Holy perfect love and infallible word redeeming us back to awaken us in the image and likeness He created us in.

As long as we settle for the counterfeit blessing of being good instead of possessing the heavenly blessing of becoming holy, we will not see God within us as the word of God reveals to us that only the pure in heart will see God (Matthew 5:8). To see God is to be aware of His holy presence because our mind has entered into the covering of His Holy Spirit where we worship Him in Spirit and in Truth. The Holiness of God’s presence within us is purposed to free us in order to liberate us from the counterfeit blessing of being deceptively good which deceives us to manipulate us and control our power and authority in believing the glory of Satan.

In Luke 4:5-8, Jesus revealed when He replied to Satan during the 40 days in the wilderness which states:

Then the devil, taking Him up on a high mountain, showed Him all the kingdoms of the world in a moment of time. And the devil said to Him, “All this authority I will give You, and their glory; for this has been delivered to me, and I give it to whomever I wish. Therefore, if You will worship before me, all will be Yours.” And Jesus answered and said to him, “Get behind Me, Satan! For it is written, ‘You shall worship the Lord your God, and Him only you shall serve.’ ”

The enemy is after our belief and trust because he desires the authority of our ability to work and worship. He desires to steal the authority of our mind to manipulate our heart in order to control our soul to stop us from manifesting the kingdom of God within us on earth as God created our whole person identity in heaven. He desires to stop us from inheriting the earth by deceiving us to give him control of our mind, spirit, soul and body so he can control our the earthly resources.

The word of God tells us in Romans 8:22-23:

For we know that the whole creation groans and labors with birth pangs together until now. 23 Not only that, but we also who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, eagerly waiting for the adoption, the redemption of our body.


The enemy know that what we build within the earth under the authority of God, will take away his dominance in the minds and hearts of people and all of creation. Until, we get out of agreement with the worldly mindset that controls the systems of the world that has possession of the luxuries of this fallen world; we will continue being under the curse of stressing that is an issue of toiling derived from a heighten awareness of fear and sin consciousness that blocks our heighten awareness and therefore conscious understanding of the Spirit of faith, grace and the true consciousness of God’s presence where we see God who is our gift of eternal life living within our mind, spirit, soul and body. When we invest in our whole person healing to hear God, we will heal and learn to love so we can become empowered as graced believers who are gifted to lead the world back to the love of God where we all are awakened to the graced conscious awareness of His heavenly presence.

As the Founder and Visionary of New You Wellness Media Publication, I invite you to partner with New You Wellness Media Publication where we are commissioned by God to help you and people understand the importance of pursuing a Christ centered wellness lifestyle that awakens our healing and awareness of our identity in Christ that is a renewed mindset which delivers us all from the identity crisis of the unrenewed mindset where mental health issues, trauma, lack of Godly wisdom, understanding, knowledge and every other inner stronghold limits us all from living the life God planned for us to experience while here on earth.

This will be accomplished by you connecting with the teachings within New You Wellness Media Publication through our articles, podcast and videos while financially partnering with the growth of this ministry as this ministry provides you with the resources to help you heal and grow into the person God predestined you to be; however you need the clear understanding of how God has purposed you and planned for you to become who you are in Him. You are encouraged to sow a financial seed by clicking HERE. You are invited to support the message of the New You Wellness Media Publication ministry by shopping our NYW Online products and services by entering HERE. You are invited to apply to enroll in our NYW Styled In God’s Purpose Whole Person Healing and Leadership Development Mentoring Program for christian women by clicking HERE as well as consider enrolling in our Holistic Life & Relational Wellness Coach Certification program for men and women by clicking HERE!

Wherever the Spirit of the Living God is we all need to invest our time, talent and resources to include finances to reap the harvest of understanding the healing and strategic life application available to us that will set us free from the limitations of our own thinking as we get back in covenant agreement and alignment with God’s higher and heavenly thinking where we become new creations in the mind and heart of God; to manifest the love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, discipline and financial peace within our everyday lifestyle.

Satan wants us to desire the beauty of this world that gives us temporary gratification leading us towards a miserable outcome within our thoughts, perspective, belief, understanding, emotions, will and desires that will break our hearts to stop us from becoming one with the holy love of God who removes the torment, fear, suicidal thoughts, depression, anxiety, phobias and every mental health issue to include disease. When we understand the truth that sets us free, we will intimately know God as the Father, Son and Holy Spirit within us where we become free to be authentically a new creation in Christ where the old identity crisis passes away because we have been made new in our identity in Christ that is the renewed kingdom mindset.

Are You An Emotional Eater?


During my last spirit led consecration time with the Lord, He revealed a deeper truth to me regarding emotional eating and His desire for me and the body of Christ to be made whole through submitting our physical appetites to the Lord. He desires for us to receive the fullness of His glory in mind, spirit, soul, and body so we can be fully reconciled to God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit.

I share this truth with the readers of this article because I have encountered an emotional and a perspective shift of understanding the importance of honoring our physical health with healthy eating and physical activity. When we do this we partner with God and submit our will, desires, and emotions to God; so His glory can be evident not only in our mind, spirit, and soul but also in our body. There is a glory of our mind, there is a glory of our spirit, and there is a glory for our soul, but there is also a glory of the body that is commissioned to fulfill the glory of God in the earth as His will is already established in heaven. Food empowers the emotions to fulfill the desires of God because it fuels our emotions and our desires or it participates in enslaving the body to do the will of the enemy.

In this article, I share my perspective shift and journey of submitting my whole person to include, physical appetite to the promptings of God to heal my soul that encompasses my will, desires and emotions. I did not arrive here overnight. I intentionally seek God’s will for my life to include my appetite for food. It is a few days before I share this post that He revealed my emotional eating needs to go to another level of surrender to His will in order for His glory to be revealed in my spiritual and physical body.

Every time our emotions submit to God’s will, our emotions shift and align with His will for our life. The soul encompasses the will, desire and emotions of the flesh and is people’s power to manifest the will, desires and emotions of the spiritual realm into the earthly realm. This alignment of spirit and soul manifests the will, desires, and emotions of the Spirit of life or the Spirit of death within the earth (John 4:1-6).

Proverbs 18:21 tells us death and life is in the power of the tongue and those who love it will eat its fruit. For years I was able to identify the spirit in this scripture pertaining to the words of life and the words of death. Most recently, God has revealed to me another part of this scripture when it comes to emotional eating. Our tongue is a two edge sword because it reveals the spirit we are in agreement with when we speak, as well as when we eat. Words are spiritual food that feeds our thought life and food is physical food that gratifies our emotions and feeds or diminishes the health of our physical bodies. Spiritual food of words and physical food both implant life or death in the spiritual and physical body simultaneously.

Believe it or not, we all are emotional eaters. Whether the emotion is aligned with the Spirit of God’s will or aligned with the spirit of Satan’s will.  Our soul that encompasses the will, desires and emotions are the fulfillment of the desire of the spiritual realms that reside in heaven or hell. When we submit our will, desires, and emotions to God He transforms our will, desires, and emotions to align with His own. Giving us the victory in our soul as our Redeemer and Lord.

Outside of God’s Holy Spirit, our heart is wicked and deceitful. Emotions make the world go round because emotions are purposed to heavily influence the actions of our body to make a heart response. This heart response can be from a desperately wicked and deceitful heart that has been damaged by the presence of sin or a heart that has been purified with the grace and truth established in the presence of  God’s Holy Spirit. Inside of God’s presence, our heart is full of grace and truth. It is this grace and truth that is our power to overcome the will, desires, and emotions of a desperately deceitful and wicked heart that has the presence of sin.  Our heart has the will to love or the will to lust. It is this will that manifests the blessings or curses of life including the blessing and curse of emotional eating.

Jesus tells us in Luke 4:1 that man does not live by bread alone but by every word that proceeds out the mouth of God. This reveals the power of spiritual and physical food. This also reveals that our physical appetites must be submitted to the will, desires and emotions of God for our lives. Our mouth is the gateway to the soul because our mouth is purposed to eat not only physical food to nourish the body, but it is purposed to speak God’s word as it releases the word of God, also known as the bread of life. This bread of life is the food that nourishes our spiritual bodies that encompass the will desires and emotions of the spirit and soul. The more we submit our appetite for physical food to God the more our emotions will align with the will, desires and emotions of God’s kingdom. God desires to release His kingdom in the whole person of our mind, spirit, soul, and body.

I hope this informative article is as inspiring to you as it is to me to think more about our relationship with food and emotional eating. Does our food choices glorify God or does it empower the spirit of gluttony known in modern times as the spirit of obesity? It is the intent of my heart to encourage you as I continue to encourage myself to seek God’s will, desires, and emotions even when it comes to our appetite for food. I desire that we may discover how He has purposed us to honor His presence in our earthly bodies as we seek to honor Him in our spiritual bodies of mind, soul, and spirit.

I invite you to join our 40 Day New You Self Love Wellness Program . This journey is not about losing physical weight. However, this journey is about discovering how to give your spiritual and emotional weight to God so in turn, He can reveal the fullness of His glory in your mind, spirit, soul, and body making your total life wellness evident in your everyday lifestyle.

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Is It Time For A Heart Check Up?



Any desire that is not submitted to God’s will for your life is idol worship. In Exodus 20:30 God’s word tells us He will have no other gods before Him. A god is an idol. Anything or anyone we choose to serve outside of God’s leading becomes a god because we have given it power over our mind, choices, heart and strength that is revealed in how we spend our time, abilities and money (time, talent, treasure) to obtain it. This is a demonstration of our faith, belief and trust in that desire to make us happy. Although we may feel some type of happiness, it will not be lasting because the desire has not been purified in God’s love. Jesus said in Matthew 6:24 you can not serve two masters, you will love the one and despise the other.

Our motivations for what we do on a daily basis reveals who we desire to serve! Make sure your desires are rooted in the love of Christ and not the love of idols! If you have desires outside of God’s kingdom and righteousness then you need a heart check up. You are experiencing a spiritual heart disease. Any desire that is pursued outside of God’s will for your life is idol worship. Idol Worship is rooted in ungodly desires or desires outside of God’s timing and will for your life. These desires are reflected in the worship of ourselves, people, cars, houses, money, religion, careers, etc. outside of God’s will and timing.

You can not serve God’s Kingdom way and Satan’s kingdom way. Satan’s kingdom way is the mindset of desires outside of God’s kingdom and righteousness that is His will. These desires become idols within our lives that get rooted in our heart and come out in our lifestyles. Our journey on earth is to purify our hearts of every desire outside of God’s will. It is the pursuit of these desires that separates us from the image and likeness of God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit. God said in Genesis 1:26 Let us make man in our image and our likeness…… To be in the image and likeness of God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit we must be one with their desires. These desires become our reason for living.

Do you remember the two commandments Jesus left? He reveals this truth in those commandments. In Matthew 22:37, Jesus said to love God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength which is the greatest commandment. Within our hearts reside the desires that we wake-up to every day to pursue with our greatest resources of time, relationships and money. It is this unrighteous pursuit of these ungodly desires that hardens our heart against the sensitive promptings of the Holy Spirit. Are you pursuing the desires you have in your life in vain? The pursuit of these desires are in vain if it is not the will of God for your life. Therefore you need a heart check up to get it back to peak fit condition. This is not possible without the faith, belief and trust in the power, love and mercy of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.


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