God’s law of attraction is simple but we must first know how to attract the blessings in life. You see there are two ways to live on earth, our way and God’s way. Our way is the way of living under the curses of death and God’s way is living under the blessings of life. 2 Corinthians tells us “do not be unevenly yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship does righteousness have with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?” As a believing women how will you experience all that God has to offer you in marriage, if you are unevenly yoked with a non-believer? Most of your time, faith and energy will be spent in trying to get the unbeliever to receive what only can be discerned spiritually, which means the unbeliever will have to encounter the light of God’s word and become a believer himself.
God’s law of attraction is found in Him putting before us blessings and curses; life and death. God tells us to choose life, which also applies to choosing a Godly husband! A Godly husband that has been specifically designed and selected for you by your heavenly father. As a woman it is normally customary to seek the approval of a father figure before marriage, why not seek your heavenly father’s approval who knows all things? You see when we are in God’s will, we will attract a healthy loving lasting relationship to us that is rooted in God’s blessings found on the path of life. A man with a divided heart who has the love of the world and proclaimed love for God will never love you the way you were designed to be loved because his love is lukewarm. Sometimes he loves you sometimes he don’t.
A man with a divided heart only loves you based on his conditions. He will not know how to love you without the love of Christ being in the center of His heart, to direct him in how he should love you. If you like me want to enjoy all that God has for you then it is time for a change. A change in us yielding, submitting, obeying and trusting God to lead our husband to us on the path of life that He has already mapped out for us. In God’s law of attraction you can not attract life on the path of death of your own way. Ladies do not settle for less when God wants to give you His best. God has custom designed a man just for you that is willing to make a life long commitment to you!
I know we all tend to have preferences when it comes to the man we see ourselves spending the rest of our lives with, but I challenge you to submit those preferences to God’s and who He has chosen for you. Don’t worry God know your desires. When you submit yourself to God your desires will become one with God’s desires. He tells us in Psalms 37:4 that when we delight ourselves in Him, He will give us the desires of our heart. He further says in Psalms 37:5 to commit your way to The Lord and trust also in Him and He will bring it to pass. The desires of your heart in your committed way also includes God giving you a husband.
Make sure the man who catches your interest bear the good fruit of the Holy Spirit in his thoughts, words and actions towards you, his family, church family, community and the world at large. Make sure he knows how to put you first next to His love and commitment to God. Make sure that you both are part of the same vision and purpose God wants you to accomplish on this earth. The unconditional love located in God’s purpose and vision is what is going to keep you all together. God’s purpose and vision is in us growing in the expression of God’s unconditional love toward each other. In God’s law of attraction, opposites in moral and spiritual values do not attract, but rather distract you from the abundant blessings of peace and an expected end that God said he has for you.
My desire for you and I is that you trust God to send you a husband that will love you like Christ loved the church. A man who will love you unconditionally with a pure everlasting love. A man who is willing to love you with all his heart because his heart is healed and one with Christ. He will not hesitate to welcome the opportunity to make you his wife because he knows that Proverbs 18.22 tells him that he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor with the Lord. When you allow God to send your husband, you will receive a kind of love that is heavenly, a kind of love that protects your heart so you no longer have to guard it a kind of love that is safe and secure with no fear of evil, a kind of love that will bring you great pleasure and a kind of love that will surround you with the presence of God’s love. So, if you want to attract God’s blessing of a husband uniquely designed just for you to share your life’s purpose with, then attract him by staying in God’s will and God’s purpose for your life.
In the meantime, prepare yourself by being whole and complete in Christ lacking nothing. As a single christian lady, Christ is your spiritual husband so submit your life’s purpose to Him. You have to make sure you are ready to attract the kind of unconditional love from your God designed God approved husband. In order to be positioned for what God has for you, desire daily to be a woman after God’s own heart. Once you have the heart of the Holy Spirit you will have the heart of the man and he will know that you are bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh without you having to fear, worry, manipulate, control, persuade or give hints. Remember, he that FINDETH a wife…. Let your God designed and God approved husband find you busy submitting your life to God’s purpose for your life and you will attract true love that will last a lifetime! 1 Corinthians 13:8 assures us that true love never fails.
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